It's not a you problem. Every parent of a serious athlete hits it. Book a free 30 minute call with Coach Dell, a former Division I football athlete, and we'll go through where your kid actually is and what changes when the structure comes from someone who's already been where he's trying to go.
Not the good week. The real one. Sleep, food, what he actually trains outside team workouts, and whether there's a program underneath any of it or he's stitching it together off TikTok.
Most families in this are already spending on travel, camps, showcases, maybe a trainer. Coach Dell will tell you honestly what he thinks is doing something and what your son needs that none of it covers.
He played Division I football. The training was the easy part. The stuff he didn't understand until he was already there is the part nobody sits these kids down and explains, and it's the part he coaches hardest.
You'll leave knowing what training would look like, what it costs, and whether it makes sense right now. If your son isn't bought in, Coach Dell will name that on the call instead of taking the money.